One bride on-line, whom we’ll name OP, has bridesmaid gown drama with certainly one of her pals. The bridesmaid doesn’t like the colours OP has chosen and takes it upon herself to put on a special coloured gown the day of the marriage. Yep, you learn the accurately. Here’s what occurred and the way OP reacted.
Marriage ceremony Planning
OP’s marriage ceremony had a winter theme. So, olive inexperienced and gold have been the dominant colours for the day. She was going to put on a white robe and have her bridesmaids wearing forest inexperienced. The maid of honor (MOH) was to put on a black gown. Everybody was going to accent with gold equipment.
Bridesmaid Costume Drama
OP requested her good friend Kat to be certainly one of her bridesmaids. After they all went gown purchasing, she advised them the colour theme she was going for. Kat instantly expressed that forest inexperienced was a nasty selection.
Kat described the colour as not flattering and thought she ought to select one thing completely different and extra “girly.” OP stated no as a result of her marriage ceremony was winter themed, and he or she felt the colour would go completely with the theme.
Kat steered pink, blue, and even crimson. OP stated no, however thanked Kat for the ideas.
Kat discovered her MOH’s gown was black and requested if she might put on black too. The bride stated no and emphasised that solely her MOH would put on black.
The Marriage ceremony Day
On the marriage day, everybody was getting their hair and make-up performed when Kat arrived half-hour late with a suitcase that appeared to comprise a gown.
The bride inquired as to the aim of this. Kat defined that it was for later, on the reception, if she (Kat) turned uncomfortable and wanted to alter after photos.
Everybody was dressed and dolled up half-hour earlier than the marriage was going to begin to take photos. Kat was nonetheless the final particular person to return down. When she got here down, she was sporting a black gown (not forest inexperienced).
On the time, OP was preoccupied with taking photos along with her dad and mom, however her MOH went over to inform her that Kat was sporting a black gown.
OP confronted Kat and requested her what was happening. Kat stated she hated her bridesmaid gown, as the colour was ugly and made her look gross, so she was going to put on black.
OP pleaded with Kat to return and alter. Kat refused and began strolling away from her.
OP Kicked Kat Out
She advised Kat she’d name safety and kick her out if she didn’t go placed on the proper bridesmaid gown.
Kat started yelling at her, so OP referred to as safety and requested them to please escort Kat out. Kat began making an enormous scene. She screamed about how OP was such a nasty particular person saying that the bride could not power her to put on something and that she was a horrible good friend.
Regardless of the ugly scene and marriage ceremony drama, the day went on amazingly properly.
Ought to OP Pay for The Black Costume?
Because the marriage ceremony, Kat has been blowing up OP’s cellphone with texts saying nasty issues and asking again the cash she spent on the black gown because it was a waste. OP needed to block Kat’s quantity as their friendship turned poisonous.
A few of her different bridesmaids have stated it was a bit of harsh ejecting Kat and embarrassing her. They’ve even steered she refund Kat for the black gown.
What do you suppose? Did the bride overreact? Does she owe Kat something?
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